That day i was watching “P.S i love you” …It was very very sad and disturbing at the same time.In it a lovey dovey couple was shown . …they are madly in love with each other.But the husband dies.
So do we have any widow or widower here on this forum.Or have you seen someone in this tragic situation?
How is life after losing your betterhalf?Actually im groping for the right words .
I mean i know life goes on but how does it feel,i know its a very mean and a rude question.If someone wants to share please go ahead.
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^ any loss would be tragic and has equal impact on our lives. Why do you want someone to explain it to you on how they feel?
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^ i agree with NJ
^ any loss would be tragic and has equal impact on our lives. Why do you want someone to explain it to you on how they feel?
Not any loss ...im talking about death
Not any loss ...im talking about death
uffffffff! That's what I mean. It's a Personal LOSS.
Are you trying to find someone to cope your "loss" with? What's going on?
Why thinking about tragedy on this beautiful day?
Eid Mubarak girl! Be happy :)
uffffffff! That's what I mean. It's a Personal LOSS.
Are you trying to find someone to cope your "loss" with? What's going on?
Why thinking about tragedy on this beautiful day?
Eid Mubarak girl! Be happy :)
Im happy ...If you have got no answer for this thread just buzz off.I donot need your suggestions all right!
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Those of us who have been through it usually dont want to relive the memory and make old wounds fresh by thinking and talking about it. You learn to cope with it, but the pain is always there, kinda subdued, a dull nagging pain that sometimes feels like it'll knock all breath out of you and eventually kill you too.
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**i have a cousin who had a very tragic life. she was epileptic so whenever a rishta came her dad won't hide the fact and as a result they wud walk away. finallly, she was almost 36 when she got married and had a son at age 38. that boy grew up to be a very handsome, decent, loving, caring, intelligent and ambitious man. he went to Aligarh Muslim University to do his undergraduate astudies.
one day, he went to Delhi to write medical admission test. it was a hot hot day when mercury peacked at 50 degrees celsius. on the way back to AligaRh, he collapsed in the train compartment and died at age 18. she wasn't home when her son's dead body arrived. she had to make a gruelling 7 hour journey to get her baby's dead body. all hell broke loose but at the time of burial she became stoned. she changed completely...became very passive and un-connected. the life became miserable.
her husband sent her for Haj a few years later. he didn't go coz he was not very religious. a day after the haj her husband passed away after a heart attack. she was not told. upon her returnm 15 days later she learned of her second greatest loss and fainted on the spot. and since then she is very quiet. she is just passing her time on planet earth. poor lady :(**
^ lol
damn!
bye bye!
lol
Masti, is it just GS or you don't get along fine with women in the real world too?
it seems like men here understand your posts better than women crowd. :)
lol
Masti, is it just GS or you don't get along fine with women in the real world too?
it seems like men here understand your posts better than women crowd. :)
lol --
maybe MEN hate me too - but they are just being polite!
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I have read the book and watched the film. The book was more poignant that the film. Anyway, I think loss of any form is painful and hard to bear. The one thing which the film/book highlights is the way in which people deal with their losses and how you can learn to cope with it.
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i've never seen the movie, and now i know not to watch it.. i HATE sad movies.
^ lol
damn!
bye bye!
Wow my response to that would definitely not have been so polite lol good on you NJ.