Re: Traditional Generation X
Even in traditional familes nowadays the older brother doesn't have to be married first. Even my husband got married before his older brother. Regarding who has the bigger wedding, all siblings have or should have equal weddings as per tradition if the paernts are paying for it. Different of course if the people getting married are paying for it themeslves but I am speaking in the most traditional sense here. So the jethani to be is wrong. I think she may be jealous of you and it is a common occurance in such relations.Just ignore these things and show her your upbringing, class and demeanour without allowing her to walk all over you.
BTW what about the third brother? You mentioned all about the other 2 in detail.