X2, hmm... ur quite right!
well honestly, i dont care about relative sizes of wedding... honestly, im not that much of a "big wedding" type of gal.
but what really annoys me is that my fiance and I have to wait another whole year to get married just to please this jethani to be. well, it was our choice to please her in order to avoid any future clashings... but i guess its always going to be a vicious cycle of one losing or the other right? we just gotta suck it up and move on.
so, our right to get married whenever we wanted WAS infringed upon! but, I guess I have to move on!
by the way, my fiance's parents are extremely cool.. they were happy with us regardless whatever choice we made about our date! and no, they're not really into the "first is first" thing. they realize that its a fading tradition.