fear before starting something new and now?
how shook up can one get?
do u dare ur own self and brace for a change, hoping that it will be for the better?
or do u just stay back and keep fearing?
chime!
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dare myself n up for a change all the time :k: 
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oh dear,
God bless!
Dushi
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most of the time stay back and keep fearing....and then i just go with the flow! :D and forget all the tension of reaching a decision!
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hi Dushwari how r u ? i dont hav alot experiences , u always ask very tricky kinda questions :)
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don't you worry dear.
life is pretty tricky and so we have to be prepared.
:>
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How can we prepared without any experiences and hardships ,Is there any shortcut kinda thing exists in ur philosophy :)
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hmm.
there are many things u can do.
study, work, think, write, talk wisely, be helpful to the needy and poor, take a stand for the right, and denounce all wrong, stay out of trouble & have some good kind of fun.
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U can becom a Goood Teacher Then Giv these Moral Lectures to ur students too:)
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"The only thing to fear is fear itself." Franklin D. Roosevelt.
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my dear,
i am a teacher by profession.
so thanks, for your idea. the idea here, is to make a productive discussion and seek various good perspectives.
best,
dushi
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dunno if its gonna be for the betterment of anyone or not.. but if fear is in question, i will go for the change..
lately, i’ve noticed i’m becoming quite rebellious..
immediate boss wasnt in yesterday, somebody was needed to ‘signoff’ some outside bills.. nobody stepped forward.. so i simply signed it… with reference to my extention and contact info..
two weeks ago, employee wanted to leave, and it JUST Happens to be that people who can authorize-leave were away/busy.. so i signed off again.. heard about it this time.. and i simply said.. well SOMEBODY would have to do it ..
this girl, myself and a technician, were hangin from a 100 ft distance and ONE person had to jump across two steel structures that holds the roof(i’m scared of heights), before they could decide which 1 of three is jumping (everyone was equally-safe), i let-go of my grip and jumped..
i think lately i’m running out of thril/“what if i do this” situations so now i’m jumping on every that i come across..
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oh dear, this is fine as long as u do nt hurt ur self or others, in this rebelllion.
infact what motivates one best is a rationalization that something is wrong and then u SET URSELF OUT to get it right, by doing all that is legal will-power, resource, time, effort, & energy use.
dushi
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^^ yeah but for me its more like... 'i gotta do this'