Mods i think this post belongs to general but if u feel it should be in corner room plz move it
Few days back i got a mail/article, something about sexual abuse, article contained strories etc about what happened to diffrent women (didnt read em all tho) but one of the incident mentioned was somthing that goes like this.
a lady was in a car with her collegue, & she claimed he was touching her thigh while changing gears
this statment was a bit odd for me, i drive one of the small car & been with atleast around 15-20 girls/ladies while driving (all sizes of ladies/girls) & i dont remeber it ever happened or even if someone is delebratly trying i think theres still enough space b/w thigh & gear
**>>i drive one of the small car & been with atleast around 15-20 girls/ladies while driving **
Driving with 15-20 girls in a small car must be fun.
Jokes aside, if the woman feels someone is inappropriately touching her thigh while changing gears, then they should sit with their legs to themselves, not all over the place for the driver to touch.
More over, a muslim woman should ideally not be in a position like this in the first place, and should sit in the back, unless they are travelling with husband, father or brother etc.
If the guy is being a true leechar and is actually grabbing the woman by reaching out, then she should give him a piece of her mind, instead of taking it silently. That will serve him right.
And lastly, a woman should carry a stun gun in her purse (but don’t try to stun the driver while he is driving, as that can be equally disastrous)
If all else fails, a .44 Magnum is the final answer. :k:
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*Originally posted by Faisal: *
Jokes aside, if the woman feels someone is inappropriately touching her thigh while changing gears, then they should sit with their legs to themselves, not all over the place for the driver to touch.
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lol. Sorry but I think that jokes were still not put aside completely. Women should be able sit in whatever way they feel like, as much as men are able to sit in whatever way they feel like; only the men shouldn't be touching women's (or anyone else's, for that matter) thighs.
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More over, a muslim woman should ideally not be in a position like this in the first place, and should sit in the back, unless they are travelling with husband, father or brother etc.
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Oh, I thought Muslim women should not travel with anyone other than their husband, father, brother and other close relatives. Is there an Islamic manual about how to sit in the cars?
How about a girl touching guy's thigh and try to get comfy...how would you like to categorize that..? Would that be seduction or a girl simply trying to get a favor out of you. Either way women should think twice about it because it's certainly not appreciated in an environment where you are working close by and while you are trying to explain a line of code to a woman, next thing you feel is a soft hand touching your thigh...and you think dang! you can't be that stupid to let your hand slip unintentionally to a place where it does not belong. I am certainly not interested in sleeping with you if that's what you are trying to signal, and if you think rubbing your hand on my thigh would- in any way- help you with your task, then think again you bimbo, I am already doing it without any payback in mind. But, you have to hold their hand and put it back in their own lap just to make sure they understood.
Yeah, you can't be disappointed by this...some guys can do anything to reach out to girls...Some girls also try hard to reach out guys like by coming so close, touching his ear and saying "Ohhh I just love that earing, is it artificial or gold?? or by hitting them with their hands "You're soo smart!!" or with similar comments...I guess the solution is to stay away from people you don't know, it will save you from being harrassed by strangers or people who you know might harrass you...I have many male friends in college but when they offer me a ride home I always say 'no thanks' because even if they're nice(I know they are) I still don't want to be disappointed by them!! :)
Several times a female colleague of mine dropped me inher car when I couldnt take my car and it happened that she touched my knees or thighs while changing gears but we never thought it to be an abuse or like that...its all inthe mind i think!
I read some time ago that a girl while trying to change gears of the car..."accidentally" grabbed the crotch of the guy sitting next to her and used "it" as a gear!!....truly weird...
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*Originally posted by seeker: *
I read some time ago that a girl while trying to change gears of the car..."accidentally" grabbed the crotch of the guy sitting next to her and used "it" as a gear!!....truly weird...
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IMPOSSIBLE! the gear box is in the middle and the guy is all the way at the left or right side of the car. Even more so that its a sorry excuse to be rubbing a girls thigh, i mean how can you its so obvious. You'd have to go pass the gear box to reach the other person atleast a foot distance if not any less.
Now if the person is sitting right behind the gearshift, beside the driver and the seat happens to be joined then yes i can say that is possible. Otherwise its all bs.
Driving with 15-20 girls in a small car must be fun. 
