I don’t think there’s an age limit on feeling hurt or upset about someone’s behavior or remarks…both sensitivity and tolerance to BS decline as you get older…but at what point does it become…“like, OH EM JEE” and like, omg you totes feel like you’re back in high school/college? and it’s not such a pretty feeling at all.
I’ve been in situations where…I didn’t feel immature or childish for being upset.
and yet a few more…where I felt…“Ok stop it sara, you’re too old for this”
There is no age limit. Some people create drama even on their death bed.
And you're never too old to be upset about someone's hurtful behavior either.
Sometimes, when it's completely unbearable and I HAVE to say something, I'll just say it. In those cases, I don't look back and I don't regret it.
But it's better to not show that you're upset, not because it's the mature thing to do, but because people ignore the drama creator and all they focus on is your dramatic reaction to the original drama.