We can go for months completely alone, dying of loneliness and thinking that the world is an unfair place where everyone else but you has an amorous partner. Then, the unexpected happens. We meet someone new, completely by surprise, and our life is transformed because this person appears to be the love of our life! And the feeling is wonderfully mutual.
All is great until we meet someone else who proves to be just as much a dream come true as the first! Suddenly we begin to wonder: Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time?
This is a question that poets have grappled with for centuries. And there is no easy answer. But, one has to understand that being in love with two people can cause great heartache for all parties should you remain indecisive, or try to live a double life.
If we find ourself with two new relationships at the same time, we may temporarily be the envy of our friends while discovering how painful the situation can actually be.
ohh. have u meet 2 girls your in love w/??
wow. that kinda sucks. who do you choose. and are they different. or kinda similar (personality and stuff) ?
Oh please, if it was love the first time, you don't even consider a second girl or guy. That goes for anyone. Attraction is not love and neither is getting along with someone. Laughing can happen with anyone that can tell a joke. Being in love, you don't look at others the same way, they are just other people.
Love is more than who is cute, nice, or who flatters you. It is that feeling of rightness. It is handing over your ATM card and knowing that that woman will do the best thing, it is not worrying about your kids while you work because she is watching them, and it is knowing no matter what kind of screw up you do, she will have your back. It is looking at a woman in 50 years after she has gained weight, has wrinkles, everything sags, and not seeing anyone but her.
You are talking lust and interest, neither are love.
that’s exactly what love is.. its the sure confidence that you will help that other person no matter what happens.. and same is expected and it happens.. its the effort of giving her more and more love everyday .. i literally think about how i can make the next day even more beautifull for her.. a simple email from ur busy work schedule.. or a simple phone call to ask what’s she upto.. or taking her out for dinner.. all these things count they make me feel amazing just by doing it for someone else.. and i dont’ expect any return from them.. that is LOVE for ya
Simple! Weigh your pros and cons for all the individuals that you seem to be interested in. I'm sure in the end you'll end up with one that best suites you. It would most likely be the one you're most compatible with and have more in common than you do with other possible candidates.
right on minah_pa and Ansoon… :k: thats exactly what love is..
when ur in love, there is no way u can look at someone else in the same light and there is no other person who can make u feel the way they make u feel.
what ur talking about is lust… and yes, u can be in “lust” with someone one, two, three, four… etc
