خاموش رھنے کے بہت فائدے ھیں مگر اسکا نقصان یہی ھے کہ دوسروں کو سنائی نہیں دیتا
آپ کیسے فیصلہ کرتے ھیں؟ کہ کب بولنا چاھیئے اور کب خاموش رھنا چاھئیے؟
Jab English aati hai to us main bhi post karne k bahut faiday hain. Ya to English main baat karain ya Roman Urdu main; parhne main zyada asaani hogi.
I can read Urdu so I was able to understand your post. And it’s a very good topic because khamoshi is indeed such a powerful thing. People can benefit from your topic and it can even (hopefully) get a good discussion going. But not everyone here is able to read Urdu or can read it quickly, so maybe consider conveying the message differently so it reaches a broader audience.
Roman urdu version of the opening post.
***Khamosh rehne k bohot faidey hain magar iska nuqsan yehi hai k dosron ko sunaye nahi deta.
Aap kaise faisla krte hain? K kab bolna chahiye aur kab khamosh rehna chahiye? ***
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thanks LP 
@redvelvet thanks for your comment
Please bear with me while I learn to write. I am a slow learner, I find it difficult to write a complete sentence(s) in one language.
For me writing in Urdu text is classical enough.
@redvelvet Many thanks for your nice words and encouragement. I really appreciate it.
oh please no apology required. I have no mind to mind and a very thick skin.So no worries. I carry a very different set of life experiences.
I asked this question to learn from talking kind few useful tips, from the last few weeks, I barter fish at this store and it required almost no communication at all. Usually I will give him (owner of the store) some fish and in exchange I will get coffee, sugar or white rice, few minutes to complete the transaction.
Yesterday to my surprise he was in a different mood. He started talking kept on talking. I am a very good listener. I kept on listening. in the end when I realised he has nothing else to say I just
hummm :hinna: Inshallah Allah Behtar kare ga
and the guy was really offended and felt like insulted in a bad way.
It was unexpected for me.
I had no clue what to say to him and how to comfort him?.
I don’t talk (voice). I hate talking. It makes me feel exhausted and I feel sick for hours.
Please do share your tips.
Yeah you are right. Thanks for your input.
Some people are weird anyway. I thought he got a good deal going and I was happy that I bring a smile to ones face every day. I give him fish worth 20 times more than what I ask for in return. some rice or a pack of bread just enough for the day.
I hope he stay reasonable enough for another month or so.