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If he is interested in only one thing she will find out and can then decide whether she wants that one thing or not.

You sound patronizing.

And the one who takes the initiative probably still has more creativity and imagination than those who sit on their behinds.

The process should be a lot simpler. You approach someone; they are not interested; you move on to another. There shouldn’t be a need for social acrobatics.