mods - there was a thread recently - a girl I think nadzz was worried that she would be responsible for her to be hubby’s cooking etc…
I can’t find that thread, but I do want to post this for her… 
here’s an article that shows that MEN DO HELP OUT!!!
German woman divorces husband for cleaning too much
REUTERS
A German woman has divorced her husband because she was fed up with him cleaning all the
time.
German media reported the wife got through 15 years of marriage putting up with the man’s penchant for doing household chores, tidying up and rearranging the furniture.
But she ran out of patience when he knocked down and rebuilt a wall at their home when it got dirty, Christian Kropp, court judge in the central town of Sondershausen, said on Thursday.
“I’d never had anyone seek a divorce for this,” he said.
