''.......also, please be aware of hurting other's feelings if your a bride to be! ''
Zarra8 it sounds like you've been hurt by a bride to be.
I think what you are referring to is very rare to the extent that you describe it.
Brides are more outspoken now than before and they want their special day day to be.......well SPECIAL! Yes you are right that they shouldn't hurt others feeling in the process.
"things were different these ladies actually got the love/respect from family members on their big day''
I COMPLETELY disagree with your implication that brides don't get the love/respect from family members on their big day, thats an absolutely ridiculous thing to say!!! Which bride doesn't get love on her wedding day?? By the sounds of it, you won't be respecting/loving whichever bride has hurt you... :s
Just my thoughts.