Re: Too much Matam ?
I am not asking for any justification. You may do your matam to your heart content, no one can stop you. You may do it for 365 days of the year :k:
I want you to come out of your shell and explain to me that
How does this excessive matam (sorrow, sadness, grief ) positively impact your life and society in general ?
For example, If I you were working for an NGO in earthquake devastated area Would you organise an event on the 8th of every month and gather children, elders and ask them to do matam for their loved one ? and remember the time when earthquake struck. Would you read the poems describing the gory details of destruction and misery of children and people who lost their loved ones ?
Please ponder 