Re: Too much in love
How long has it been since your past relationship with mr horrible that ended up hurting you badly? I hope you are totally recovered and over it before you jumped into this new potential husband rishta. It’s just we tend to never think straight if we are still in recovery mode of being badly hurt by someone we put a lot of hope and care into. This potential is soon to be life partner, hopefully the fog clears of that initial feeling of love in the air and you are looking at it practically. Is it really love though if you haven’t lived with him? I think real, true love happens only after you’ve look at his flaws, however few he might have, dead in the eye and analyzed them into ones you can live with and still love and care for him.
of course you have flaws too but since you are floating on cloud 9 right now, come down to earth and think practically and not emotionally at this time. Keep emotions as far away as possible because these are uncertain times like RV said. He might seem very wonderful, dreamy, and perfect but realize you are giving him the power to hurt you if you totally fall for him hard. Recovery time will take longer if you fall face down. You really don’t know him that well.