Toddler extremely scared

Hello all.

I have 18 month old son. I recenlty moved from pakistan to canada and ever since my move i ve been noticing my son is extremely scared.

The lightest of sounds (fridge tripping, door opening, phone ringing) startles him. He is old enough to understand what the sound is of but he just gets scared to a point he stops his play n just clings to an adult at the sound. Yesterday my nephew opened the door to enter the house n he got scared to a point that he started crying.

He is not iust scared of sounds. He is scared of other things too. He usually points at corners or in space n gets all scared n clings to me but i never see anything in the direction he points at. I sumtyms recite ayat al kursi n blow in thatdirection n at him. He calms down.

Last night at around 3 am he woke up screaming and tried to make a run n banged his head in the wall. I dont know if they dream at this age or he was scared of sth before falling asleep. He was clinging to me just before going to bed as if sth was scaring me but there was nothing there.

I live with my parents currenlty and its always a full house MA so he is never alone. In pakistan i was in joint family and i never left him with anyone other than my husband or an adult who i could trust and that too rarely ..once or twice. So i really dont know how he has developed this fear.

Can you guys advise?

Re: Toddler extremely scared

No advice, just get him checked with a paediatrician.

Re: Toddler extremely scared

He’s been through a huge adjustment too with your move and can’t express himself. No wonder he’s upset! Reassure him when he gets upset and lots of cuddles and one on one time. And of course try to set a routine for him so he can adjust and know what to expect when.

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Sgc i do that a lot. He gets sufficient attention and he is quiete independent ptherwise MA.

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Does he have a routine in place for meals, naps, playtime etc?

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Do not worry he will adjust with time inshaAllah…happened with my kid when I went to Pak(he was 20 months old)…his behaviour was same like your son…he was not even going to his grandparents…scared
..confused…used to cry alot when someone tries to talk to him…and he was literally on my lap for first few days in pakistan he wasnt even want sit on sofa or on floor…but he got better with time…so just relax…

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just this change or any other difference you noticed?

Re: Toddler extremely scared

Just this. Otherwise he is okay AH. Sgc he has a routine for the things u mentioned.