i realized how unfair the world really is.
im not sad or jealous that somebody got something. im just upset that despite all that theyre capable of and their character traits, they got what they got.
i guess what someone does to me does not dictate what they get in life
:(((
so hugs please?
today
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halal hug…
PS: err no..I can’t lie…very haram hug. i have to go say astaghhfar and Hail Mary’s..just to be extra cautious
Awkward (for you) hug
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thanks everyone. halal and haram hugs accepted.
after shedding a few tears and giving myself a migraine and sulking…im gonna say i still believe in karma. i think. i want to. i hope so. you cant get ahead by stepping on others or messing up things for others. and im gonna believe that.
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hey philo…sometimes when you dont get what you want, its because had you gotten that you would not have pursued something better. so keep at it.
you will do just fine…
and always always listen to your gut…that instinct cuts through all the bull**** we carry around whether self doubt, or over confidence or the fake it till yo make it stuff…you get a feeling if something is not going to work, you pick up clues…never ignore them
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this is a very complicated situation. and i feel like im the only one who got screwed over and manipulated and lost out on everything. and nobody else seees it. 
you’re older than me, please tell me that people get what they deserve and payback for the wrong they do to others?
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I wish I could say that..but I can’t, some people are real jackasses and have a great time and have no payback of any sort that can be seen. but dont look for it or wait for it…remove ppl from your life, and let them live on as happy a holes, or sad ones because their life blew up a few weeks or months or years later…it matters to them then, not to you, its not your life..
This is what I can tell you, same thing I said in my msg to you..but with one additional sentence at the end..
**** happens in life, mother mature can be a beyotch and ppl even worse..
they hurt you, take advantage of you, rip you off…kick you when you are down, i won’t sugar coat it
but…
but…
changing yourself to be someone you are not, your passion, direction, focus, goals and be dejected and down means that those ppl or circumstances hurt you once..and now you are hurting yourself, again and again…and again, every day. stop it.
halal hugs…cheer up
dont worry about what happens to people who wronged you, what happens to them is not in your control, and hoping for it, obsessing over it or anything, you are just letting them live rent free in your head…boot em the hell outta there..you want revenge, you be the best you can be, even better than you would have been otherwise…thats what you do…you rock your future
PS: okay just a little makrooh this time
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What X2 said.
Just do you and be your best self. Wishing ill on others, jealousy, and negative thoughts will just eat you up inside. Letting go is the best way. It’s not easy, but you can do it.
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If it is your professional work, you can calmly get the word out when opportunity presents itself. Don’t obsessed over it. Those who step on others do have things catch up with them. Especial ially in the scientific community. When that happens, give a gentle push to send the person reeling.
Use this as a learning experience. In future, protect t yourself.
Your professional life is just beginning. This will make you smarter.
Do not compromise on your ethics. But don’t let folks walk all over you.
Now go to your room.
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thank you. im gonna try my best.
right, again. sometimes you just have to accept slight failures but learn from them. another part of growing up
thank you southie. great words and very applicable to me. how do you know??
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S. Not s.
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Luck , or how else could we explain the success of people we don’t like.
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not luck, their perseverance and ruthlessness.
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Halal hug from me and stay strong… if you need any fitness/ass kicking moves remember to call me anytime :faris:
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I believe you always pay for your bad deeds…maybe not now…maybe later…but you always pay.
So do not worry about a thing…they will answer at some point.