I am away to embark on a bit of a controversial journey.
I am a matchmaker in the UK. You can find articles on my FB page in regards to various issues.
There are more women born to the ratio of men - Fact
So if the men in the UK keep going back and marrying girls from Pak and the UK/USA British females
refuse to marry Pak = Obviously equates to a lot of Single ladies
I have absolutely nothing against Pakistani’s. I have a lot of friends and I am a British origin Pakistani too.
The reason men go back to Pakistan is because they think girls here are too ambitious and are unsure if they will respect their elders and adapt to a married life - OF COURSE THEY CAN - Give them a Chance. My matchmaking process is an INTRODUCTION service. You get to speak to each/parents etc and discuss all this.
I am overwhelmed with the response and support I have had. If the men keep going back to marry then even their own sisters neices and all female relations are under the same perdicament. So we need to put a STOP to this!
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I don't decide, I am merely presenting facts. And the men that go back to Pakistan are not happy because they feel they had to settle for second best because of the pressures from their mothers. And the fact they didn't know where to meet girls their age in Britain. Are the girls from Pakistan happy here? No they find it so difficult to settle and fit in.
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:) Yes obviously if you run a service you have to use strategy that educates your clientele and you make awareness of your service. Noone is forced to pay and sign up. You won't believe how many Pakistani's are contacting me asking to put money into my account to find them a UK Bride/Groom. I refuse I do not want to waste their time or money.I cannot force anyone to marry someone Internationally. So it's a service for British Sunni's seriously seeking to marry. I chose a name people wouldn't forget easily! :D
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If you really want to serve the Pakistani Community, you should provide fee of cost services and should try to find matches for girls in UK and should convince the guys in UK to marry the girls who are in UK.
Just to comdemn something so that it can help you with your business is not ethical.
We all know girls living abroad have problems finding rishta since Pakistan guys bring wives from Pakistan. If you can do something about it NOT with a business sense, you will be contributing positively to the society.
Nothing wrong in taking up matchmaking as a business. But I think its not good to use this strategy to get clients for yourself.
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@Ashy2010 Yes because I tried to do a few free rishtay and the people messed me around SO much. People don't value an individuals time and effort. I am spending the registration fees on advertising and martketing campaigns. Once they register and pay I know they are committed Insh'allah
I now have registered and paying clientele and alhumdulillah it's going very well. Please do dua for all my Single Clients. They are fed up of being messed around on these so called free online muslim sites full of fake profiles and time wasters. I by no means raise anyones hope or give them false expectation. I am here to increase their chances of finding someone so I am an 'Introduction Service' I take feedback after my clients meet and deliver any good or bad news there maybe. That's the beauty of using a confidential service, noone has to feel awkward.
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I absolutely respect everyones point of view here. ASHY2010 Can you please tell me if I asked you to volunteer your time and effort day and night, and leave a highly succesful career to start being a Professional Matchmaker would you do it?
Would you then pay for a website, pay for a bespoke Database to keep clientele details, pay for advertising online and muslim magazines, travel to wedding events and would you then feel it was unjustified to want fees to cover your expenses? Do all this in return to provide you with mroe choices of Clientele per the criteria given to me?
Noone has the guts to do what I am doing. One Aunty-Ji said she touched her ears and did tauba that she would never do matchmaking again - WHY? Because we live in a BLAME CULTURE. The middle person gets the blame. So if I remain impartial to both parties and take fees I can deliver such a service and not be worried about - Shoot the Messenger/The Matchmaker. I tried to do a few free rishtay and it was attracted by nosey/gossiping asians, I refuse to show photos or show any profiles to such people. I need people to value their own future and then in return value me as a service provider. Jazukullah
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Jazakullah - I came here for some research I want to know what peoples experiences are, I am not here to ask people to sign up. I strongly urge any girls if they are getting proposals via family members friends etc please feel blessed and consider it seriously. I have so many girls over 30+ and unfortuntely it has become so difficult. I have mothers saying we want grandchildren please find a bride under 30+ Of course you can conceive over 30>:mad:
I have to listen to so much and my work is difficult but I am a woman on a misison to unite hearts Insh’allah but we need real changes in our society. I have Single Lady GP’s 30+ you would think wow doctor but it’s not that the men aren’t around its the fact their mothers want a nauakarani so they go back to Pakistan to wed thier sons. They line up the women and he jsut has to point her out, it doesn’t matter if he has a decent shukal or not. Such a sad state of affairs.
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What is stopping girls , women and their parents in UK to import a groom , if they are willing to respect the parents of the groom and be really nice wives and daughters in law then they can marry any gentleman from back home and live happily ever after.
I have a website. mailordergroomfrompakistan.com and facebook page please visit that and like my page to get one free rishta offer.
rishtabhaijaan.
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Only truth or factual findings hurt people, if this isn't true then no need to get stressed. This is not a personal dig at anybody.
Yeh, no need to get stressed because the author seems to have a few screws loose.
I love the bit that says that if you say you are in a happy marriage with husband from who was from Pakistan, you must be lying or delusional. Sour grapes much.
Jazakullah - I came here for some research I want to know what peoples experiences are, I am not here to ask people to sign up. I strongly urge any girls if they are getting proposals via family members friends etc please feel blessed and consider it seriously. I have so many girls over 30+ and unfortuntely it has become so difficult. I have mothers saying we want grandchildren please find a bride under 30+ Of course you can conceive over 30>:mad:
