To the Men: How true are these statements about most Men?

[redvelvet]

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Maybe one of the problems is that it's easier to become super duper lovey dovey like Elmyra Fudd...when you make the relationship your predominant priority....and don't focus much on other interests. I think even when one is not in a relationship...it takes a conscious effort to make time for other things besides work, family, etc. Key words being conscious effort...but it makes a person more interesting as you have other things going on in your life. It need not mean that you stop being yourself. Rather it allows you to be more of who you are..because you're concentrating on a variety of areas that make you ...you.

[dragonlady]

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O O there is another one which my begum's nani told her

"beta mard per 40 saal k baad kari nazer rakhni chahyeee" - so my wife is planning years ahead and researching spy-sets from discovery stores :)

my dado used to say that,but her version was more colorful. she used to say "40 saal ki umer main murd per dobara jawani ati h" lolz:)

[Decent_6Chora]

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@dragonlady

my dado used to say that,but her version was more colorful. she used to say "40 saal ki umer main murd per dobara jawani ati h" lolz:)

seem like your dadi and my wife's nani went to same school :)

[queen_24]

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@dragonlady

my dado used to say that,but her version was more colorful. she used to say “40 saal ki umer main murd per dobara jawani ati h” lolz:)

really

[dragonlady]

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yeah well dada had two wives,so... :D

[psyah]

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Make him want you without making him feel that you want him

... because then he'll become lazy in the comfort of the idea that he has you ...

**Please him with attention, but make him feel the need to care for you rather than you caring for him

**... because then he'll know you are interested and that he still has to try to get you ...

[queen_24]

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@dragonlady

yeah well dada had two wives,so…

[STA]

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@dragonlady

my dado used to say that,but her version was more colorful. she used to say “40 saal ki umer main murd per dobara jawani ati h” lolz:)

[Xtron]

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just trying to get some insight into the male brain, obviously these are generalizations but i'm sure there are similarities in how most men see things when it comes to women....:Dit was just something i read, nothing to take too seriously, i was just wondering how true some of this is

Now everyone likes attention but the way we are..we like to chase beautiful women.

[yourfriend]

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Tip#1: Don't give a man more than he gives you.
...... and dont let him take you for granted

[NomiCA]

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do these tips apply to women too?? just wondering…

[Captain_Obvious]

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@Nisha25

to get him but also to not be treated like a doormat after giving him a lot lot more than he gives you, are you saying there aren’t men that would see things that way…the ones that turn out to be emotionally abusive, i’ve come across a man like that, it’s torturous especially if the first impression given is one of vulnerability(by the woman)

forget it all the men on this forum are perfect and w/n do things like that.
i just d/n understand men

My guess is that these tips are coming from someone who has been in failed relationships. At best, these tips would be useful for cutting your losses in a relationship that’s about to fail anyway.

If a man is of the abusive, controlling nature, then sure, he might see your giving him more or doing things for him as an opportunity to control you or whatever. That’s the type of guy you wouldn’t want to be with anyway.

If you were to follow the tips you listed, you might get that type of man to forget about you and seek another “target” instead. Then again, you’d probably also convince any “normal” guy to look for someone else as well.