I don't know if this counts as off topic but shouldn't u guys not be leaving the toilet seat up cuz u don't need it to be up ...as in u should be sitting down and peeing. Didn't ur mom ever tell u k beth k kiya Karo, chheentain (splashes) parhti Haen... Napaki (impurity) hoti hae?? Never had the toilet seat issue in my home or hubby's home. Ofcourse if ur using a urinal at work it's different (but then there's no toilet seat to be left up anyway). Anyway that's what I know from all the guys that I can ever really talk to about peeing, my bros and my hubby.
Not a big deal. I would change for my future wife what she wanted me to. If it strengthens my relationship why not. Would not change my core beliefs though.
I don't know if this counts as off topic but shouldn't u guys not be leaving the toilet seat up cuz u don't need it to be up ...as in u should be sitting down and peeing. Didn't ur mom ever tell u k beth k kiya Karo, chheentain (splashes) parhti Haen... Napaki (impurity) hoti hae?? Never had the toilet seat issue in my home or hubby's home. Ofcourse if ur using a urinal at work it's different (but then there's no toilet seat to be left up anyway). Anyway that's what I know from all the guys that I can ever really talk to about peeing, my bros and my hubby.
only if you knew....sitting and doin it would mean getting lower your half geela and pich pich....
I can get where this thread might be coming from. Many women or "wives" have this innate idea that the husband should only dote on them and completely forget their own family (sibling but especially old parents). HERE IS A NEWSFLASH: Even a gora advice column that I was reading had the woman suggesting to a wife that don't expect your husband to break it off with his parents because it won't happen (in many cases) and you only will have to regret it yourself. I have seen it in my extended family where this auntie was very cold towards her MIL but when it came the time of marriage for her son, she expected so much caring from the DIL like she had to live with her that the DIL just plainly refused. Jaisi karni waisi bharni is all I have to say.
Moving out doesn't equal 'forgetting' his family.. A lot of inlaws seem to throw a hissy fit over the mere thought of the son moving out..
'Forgetting family' or 'breaking ties' means no contact.. Am sure they exist but I doubt there are many desi dils who want or have asked for that.. I've yet to come across a single one.. Most just want to live like normal adults with space, privacy and the freedom to make their own decisions in life..
I'll respond for my husband haha. Well in some instances he takes my opinion and tries to implement it i.e., changing socks everyday (yes many men have this issue since my friends complain too :p ) , not leaving wet towel on the bed, cleaning out the bathroom after using it etc. For bigger issues it takes time for him to accept and change. Other times you simply can't change him and leaving it helps.
