NomiCA
December 17, 2010, 5:20pm
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Re: To the married people here - share success story
Allhamdulliah My story is simple… I had to struggle for my Wife and she had to struggle for me.
I was betrothed to another woman but things never worked out, and the other fammily and my fammily eventually went to war as it were…
I tried my best to make things work and even came close to begging for peace… but to no avail… There was no way it could end happily and thus ended the saddest episode of my life, apart from Kargill perhaps…
But as fate would have it many years later my chance to meet the woman of my dreams came from out of the blue and I consulted my parents and after several missed chances we eventually got the two fammilies to meet up and decide our fate.
I chose to be truthfull and hide nothing about my past and my character but her fammily loved me for it all the more… so that was it. We got married and we are living in great happiness. Both of us have made many sacrafices and suffered many ordeals but it’s good that we can put our pasts away and work for a future.
My wife is a very devout Muslim but she is typically a pious and educated woman… And I’m typically a savage and brutish thug with ill tempermant and poor manners. But we make a fine couple… or so everyone says.
Hopefully I look forward to giving you all some good news soon as we open another chapter in our lives.
Thanks for replying…at least thats a start… you could just share some tiney winy little bit of ‘history’ of yours…like when you and your wife were at odds…but somehow you worked out your issue…
i opened this thread so that some married people give out some info/advise as opposed to all the un-married/non-married people giving their advises all the time…