ooh i wasn’t talking about you, i meant general people who say this.. and not just about doctors, but also a lawyer or anyone else making alot of money. 
As for the male perspective, I have seen my dad be very supportive of my mother’s career. And I adore the way aahmed (guppy here, wife is a doctor) is so encouraging of her career as well. He too went through the whole deal of her being in medical school, then residency and then a baby, and mA is a great husband AND an awesome father. Im sure if he’s around or comes across this thread, he would share his experiences too.