To stay with old parents or move away?

[Maham]

Re: To stay with old parents or move away?

@Shokha

Other brothers are married (have wives who don’t really want to live/take care of parents) and its kind of understood that its for me to do…and i have always thought of it as my responsibility…thats why i said what i said..

I could take them to the abroad..for that first i will have to decide whether i want to go abroad or not..and its not certain how long it will take for me to able to take them abroad once i reach there..

and i can’t talk it out just like that…they would just say ‘ok you can go’ but ts upto me…no parent want their kids to move away..

I apologize in advance as what i am gonna say may sound harsh but i have to say what i have to say;

1. I suppose your brothers must be adults since they are married. So don’t tell me that they dont have the guts to tell their wife what they are suppose to be doing.

2. No women has the himat to tell her husband not to stay with his family or not to support them. If she does, you gotta be a man enough to shut her up and put her at her place.

3. Your brothers may not want to stay with their parents cuz of their wives but they can atleast send money to support them.

Stay with your parents, they don’t need more torture.