Re: To speak soft or to carry a heavy stick ?
I know, but can't help it. People say I am over sensitive, but is not in my control.
@ Dushwari sister and Pathani sister, I think I should take a print out of your comments, and have a look at them frequently. JazakAllah kahir for sharing your views.
**Question : **What would you say about the following saying of Lt. General Chibbar.( One of the most successful General of Indian Army)
" As a leader you must know WHO among your juniors need a pat at his back, and who among them needs a kick at his back "
Do you think one's behaviour should vary alot depending on the personality of the individual one is dealing with ?
You are welcome, brother. Dont mention.....
No, I believe it depends on the task. Some are planned in good time and others need urgent or tough calls right there, right now..... Have same approach in your being. Dont be moody or swing too much. That makes people insecure. To listen is actually what most leaders/teamleaders kinda dont do..... Its their loss, because workers have a lot of qualified reasoned ways of doing things. Time saver....
You cant have chemistry with all. I dont like people who whines or complains too often. I ask them if they thought of what the solution/diff approach should be? In our country, we have 3 months of "trial" period. Then you get permanent job. So its about using that period wisely......:D