To say or not to say?

[KKF]

Re: To say or not to say?

@redvelvet

^If she treats them exactly as they treat her, she could end up hurting her marriage. If her husband has already tried talking to his parents to no avail, then an attitude from her could harden them more. If she feels she’s often taken advantage of…then she can limit how much she helps out. Or just readjust her views; she can help her in-laws with the goal of strengthening her marriage and as a good deed for Allah’s sake and expect reward from Him as opposed to expecting it (in any form…approval/acceptance) from her in-laws.

i believe that people will ONLY stop ruling over you if you let them…the more you play “miss nice gal”, the worse their treatment will get.

nek ke saath nek aur TeRhe ke saath TeRhaa baneN…yehi meraa paiGhaam hai!