Re: To say or not to say?
She doesn’t have to be a doormat. She doesn’t have to bend over backwards. But if she treats them exactly the way that they treat her…un dono main koi faraq nahi rahay ga. Also, it’s not worth straining her marriage. She can reduce her niceness…be a bit tougher so she’s not taken advantage off and still remain civil while doing so. I don’t advocate being nasty or cold to the in-laws and stooping to that level. Most likely they will just harden toward her; it won’t make them wake up and realize their mistakes. It’ll just start a back and forth cycle of badtameezi/revenge between both parties. Also, places her husband…who should be heloing to bridge the gap if ge isn’t…in a tricky situation. Door tak k consequences ko dekhna chahiye not just the option that provides immediate relief but long term headaches. :rollseyes: