To say or not to say

Very well said. We need to understand that nothing is going to come out of badmouthing each other with even our own parents. If anything its only gonna bring on the animosity for which we ourself wl regret later. Everyone wants respect for their spouse n by badmouthing them we r just doing the opp. In the end no matter what we all get back together such are these family bonds n then later we regret that oh so n so is not very respectful for my husband n wife n we wonder y?! Well thats cuz u give the other person the liberty to judge them and make crude remarks abt them.

Husband n wife and so does other family members needs to understand we get respect nt only by how much others give us respect but also by how much our family is respected.