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December 21, 2013, 6:17pm
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Re: To Laugh or To Cry
hmmm … someone demanding young girl is unrealistic (although that is allowed in our deen) but on the other hand divorcees demanding unmarried guys/gals is not unrealistic & absolutely fine … cool …
Don’t know what exactly my reaction should be but i guess reading these absurd things make me so pissed that in the end all u’re capable of doing is to laugh at all of that.
So like i promised to help an aunty of mine look for prospects as she has been trying to match likeminded people without disrespecting integrity of either of the families. So from time to time i check the matrimonial thread to see if there are any matching profiles with what she requires and every time i read something there which really pisses the hell out of me. For God’s sake, cut off the hypocrisy! Its just so very annoying to read people sugar coat their demands as if oh these are such genuine demands, they are totally worth it blah blah. Argh.
This might be offensive to whoever but come’on what kind of justification is that my bro is so n so age but require a younger girl cuz he’s so damn lively. ROTFLOL! Epic. Why don’t you have the guts to straight away say you want a younger girl…?! Sharm aati hai? Well aani bi chahiye .
Gosh, if i ever turned into a matchmaker,** i would show everyone their real aukat.** This is the fault of our society, nobody speaks the truth or doesn’t have the guts to do it. Why can’t the rishte wale tell the involved parties when they are going overboard with their demands? Why can’t they step in to show them the mirror that your demands are not reasonable, etc.
The role of a matchmaker is to help and aid the process but unfortunately they have turned out such a noble profession into a cheap one.
what hypocrisy you are talking about?
