Being in love may be a very nice warm feeling to have, most especially if a couple stays together forever.
But, it just gives you that horrible feeling when you break up,due to any reasons.
So, if you were to go back in time or had the choice.. With all the hurts and all. Would you have chosen not to have known love at all?
Why, or why not?
That's why fooling around before marriage is a big no no.
Love** is **a "nice n warm feeling" provided you know for sure, this is the person you're going to be with forever, and that includes parents' consent.
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Everything happens for a reason . It is part of growing up . You learn with time and it prepares you for the future . Never regret past . Just learn and move on .
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Ermmm.. weed?
whatever you do... don't die a virgin...
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it's better to know love and lose it because you can avoid signs of heartbreak in the future.
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^Isn't there a saying by a famous personality(though I cannot remember who said it), "Better to have loved and lost than not to love at all".
For those saying that one should fall in love only when you are sure that you are going to be with that person, how does one know for sure? First of all, one never chooses to fall in love, in my opinion love is not something 'elective'..if you love someone you just love them. There doesn't have to be any rationale in it, nor any logic. You can choose not to act upon what your heart says, but you cannot choose how your heart feels for someone.
Secondly, how do we know whom we are going to marry beforehand. Nor can we know what future holds for us. And there is no guarantee that you may fall in love with the person your parents chose for you. I dont' think love is governed by laws like, 'he is my husband/she is my wife, hence I love him/her".
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I'd rather not have known any pyaar-shaar
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^Right, but you are saying this after knowing pyaar shyaar. You couldn't have known before you fell in love how it was going to turn out:)
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theres no way you can love from love either. at some point in your life, it's going to come and stop you dead in your tracks. how you deal with afterwards depends on whether it will be a disaster or a success.
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That's why fooling around before marriage is a big no no.
Love** is **a "nice n warm feeling" provided you know for sure, this is the person you're going to be with forever, and that includes parents' consent.
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You can never know for sureand even after marriage people get divorced and even when parents know relationships end,we have way too many examples of both in just these threads.
Everything happens for a reason . It is part of growing up . You learn with time and it prepares you for the future . Never regret past . Just learn and move on .
Could not have said it better myself.
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These are lessons of life delivered to us so we can learn from them.
Ive had plenty of set backs in life and the person I am now is a result of it. As hard as it gets, Ive never wished to be someone else or erase my experiences.
Its life!
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yea i agree
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A good friend of mine says that even when you are in love. It is 60% pain and 40% happiness.
But its way better to have loved.
Love is a real thing, its the Emotional part of your brain reaching a intense state of feelings towards a person. The state can result in some really amazing things and maybe even make you do things you wouldn't do for anyone else. The problem is people confuse the state of love with the state of infatuation. Which is why majority of marriages end in Divorces, because they are not truly in love, they are infatuated. Emotions and lust are confused with love. Love last and that other bulls**t is temporary. Same reason that people marriage's don't last because it's built on sand and not rock.
Do I believe in Love? Hell yah. Will I find it? Probably not
Today most women have been programed by there mothers/friends/family to only go after a brother whose rich when it comes to commitment/long term/marriage. They need you to buy them the biggest diamond or Presents to show they have a Love feeling, Which pretty much is a destruction of the Entire Idea that Love was something that couldn't be bought nor even held in your hand and was suppose to be something on a greater level of emotional intensity.
If you're looking for a woman to love, good luck in that bulls*t. Because most women are f*king retarded and there's very few who are sincere that are more interested in a brother characters then how much he makes and spends on you. The one's that are the most concerned with how a brother treat's em/how caring/loving he get snapped up quick.
Also women want a relationship they see in the god damn movies now. Flawless, perfection no troubles and if there is any, they are fixable within 30 minutes. People no longer work on relationships, build off sacrifices, and grow closer. Moment something goes wrong, either they'll divorce and destroy our financial lives, use ours and there own bloodline for leverage, and denounce anything about you too your kids.
If you can find Love, make it work and keep it until you're a dead next to them. Then you have my respect. Cause you actually figured out how Love is. Love is rare and when it's actually LOVE it'll last no matter.
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There is no lesson in the world that human cant learn. So instead of going back, one should learn the lesson and move on.
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^:k: