Lately i've been reading a lot of threads on here about rishta horror stories where mostly the gal's side is the 'victim' or has to deal with the insults n all.
Most of these guys whose rishta goes to 'materialy suitable' girls are quite well educated from prestigious institutions with recognized degrees and hold stable high paying jobs. All of these things (degree, job, pay) would normally qualify any person to be sensible enough to distinguish the right from wrong.
Why, then, do these guys not put a stop to the insults, rude comments, greediness, material demands and many other things (whoever they come from be it mom, chaachi, daadi, daada, baap, etc) showered upon a respectable gal's family?
I want to hear guys' side of the story.
P.S. i know this is not only always done by guy's side but could be from gal's side and i also know tat not all rishta stories are horror stores (some are beautiful). i am only talking about horror stories and tat too initiated by guys' side.
looks like materialism from both sides innit?
the guy is basically pursued because of the factors you listed prestigious institution, high paying jobs etc etc. if the guy is going to be seen as a checking account by the girls family, the girls family can be seen as making an investment in this future annuity ;)
not to say either it right, both are wrong. That is however how parts of society operate and it appears that only one ill gets covered..but then there is no such thing as hazrat digest to beat this to death.