In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the
question…
“What kind of man are you looking for?”
She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking.
“Do you really want to know?”
Reluctantly, he said, “Yes.”
She began to expound… As a woman in this day and age, I am in a
position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can’t do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man. I am in the
position to ask, “What can you bring to the table?”
The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to
money. She quickly corrected his thought and stated, “I am not referring to
money. I need something more.” I need a man who is striving for perfection in
every aspect of life.
" He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to
explain.
She said, "I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection
mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don’t need a
simple-minded man.
" I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection
spiritually because I don’t need to be unequally yoked… believers mixed with
unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection
financially because I don’t need a financial burden. I am looking for
someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong
enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect.
In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man
who isn’t taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive…he
just has to be worthy. God made woman to be a helpmate for man. I can’t help a man if he can’t help himself. When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He
sat there with a puzzled look on his face.
He said, “You’re asking a lot.”
She replied, “I’m worth a lot.”
to every woman who’s worth a lot and every man who needs to know that.
hayrat ki bat hay, JB male (Faizy) ke lekhay howay ke tareef kar raha hay or aap female ke lekhay howe ki… kabhi kabhi aik dosray ke lekhay howe ki bhi tareef karni chahiay.
aap kee urdu meree samajh se bahar hai azad bhai. when two ppl meet they look for equality respect and love in each other proly a best friend they can rely on all of their life. And thats what makes them worth a lot for each other. And I appreciated the words from woman cuz she is saying exactly what women looks for in a guy.
And on the other hand guy is only thinking of money as power and as everything. He thinks thats what woman looks for
I don’t think faizy is contridicting my opinion, if u meant to say that.
shabash:blush:
