Hmm i was just thinking of that right now. I know the elders do that, exact reciprocation, which is fine if that’s their thing. But I don’t know if that’s exactly possible with us. Now my friends are going to be getting married off soon, and none of them came to my wedding or gave gifts etc, so does that mean i shouldn’t give them any thing at all? Or hte ones who did give me gifts at a bridal shower shd I reciprocate wiht that exact $$ amount? blah idk. i actually gave cash to a friend who got married right after me (i was still high on my new status and my own wedding :halo: ) but now gift card is perfectly fine :k: