Re: To all the men who want a “pure” virgin wife
no games, just sports 
Re: To all the men who want a “pure” virgin wife
What the… ?! 
Re: To all the men who want a "pure" virgin wife
If you love the girl to such an extent, you'd be willing to forgive her past and look beyond it. Atleast that's how i see it i wouldn't marry a girl who was sexually promiscuous in the past. But if i really loved her i'd be willing to forgive it and move on. But She would also have to show fidelity to me. And if i feel as if she was used by men and that she is willing to commit to to a relationship with me only then i'd accept her as she is. Lots of things factor in to this, you guys just don't go looking for a girl who is virgin and "cleannetclean" You have to first fall in love with her. If you LOVE her enough you'd be willing to accept her.
PS: Emphasis on Love.
As Rumi says "Come to the garden in spring... There is wine and sweethearts...| In the pomegranate blossoms.... If you come, these will not matter.... if you do not come, these will not matter...
Re: To all the men who want a "pure" virgin wife
About this topic
I will say all girls become virgin again if they do not play game till 7 months.
even a mother of children
You mean the tissue **grows over time and the **issue is/should be over?
If you love the girl to such an extent, you'd be willing to forgive her past and look beyond it. Atleast that's how i see it i wouldn't marry a girl who was sexually promiscuous in the past. But if i really loved her i'd be willing to forgive it and move on. But She would also have to show fidelity to me. And if i feel as if she was used by men and that she is willing to commit to to a relationship with me only then i'd accept her as she is. Lots of things factor in to this, you guys just don't go looking for a girl who is virgin and "cleannetclean" You have to first fall in love with her. If you LOVE her enough you'd be willing to accept her.
PS: Emphasis on Love.
As Rumi says "Come to the garden in spring... There is wine and sweethearts...| In the pomegranate blossoms.... If you come, these will not matter.... if you do not come, these will not matter...
I think the whole discussion is about if someone is really willing to fall in love (enough to marry) with non-virgin girls.
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There are women who would not like/love men who were players (if they knew).
Then why there is so much cry over men who do not want to marry non virgins? 
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I think women would forgive even hitler and fall in love with him! Hats off to you Eva. I would have to agree with EDAL in his earlier posts that this is how the hierarchy works. Men are conqureres in another sense so they want to have as many women as they want. It’s not their fault entirely if they see an attractive woman they’ll want to make her theirs. But women take that as something negative and derogatory. This is how God made Man and Woman, that doesn’t mean that women are any less than men! This is how we’re designed to be.
Re: To all the men who want a “pure” virgin wife
True say.
…It’s all about the testosterone (and estrogen) as perhaps I said somewhere. 
Re: To all the men who want a “pure” virgin wife
they feel and exercise this right. this should be know. many non-virgin desi men get virgin wives. who are you to question their morality.
Re: To all the men who want a “pure” virgin wife
“To all the men, don’t listen to this bs, its mostly just bitter chicks posting here from time to time, make your tobah don’t do it again and get a nice clean wife.”
oh man what a moron
Re: To all the men who want a "pure" virgin wife
I think women would forgive even hitler and fall in love with him! Hats off to you Eva. I would have to agree with EDAL in his earlier posts that this is how the hierarchy works. Men are conqureres in another sense so they want to have as many women as they want. It's not their fault entirely if they see an attractive woman they'll want to make her theirs. But women take that as something negative and derogatory. This is how God made Man and Woman, that doesn't mean that women are any less than men! This is how we're designed to be.
I wanna add another perspective to this perspective that men are conquerors.
If you think about it, women are the ones who reject mens' advances or even allow it to develop into something. Women have an immense power when it comes to rejecting not-so-great men and encouraging "good, high status men". In that way, the whole world of men [and now women are a part of it too] aiming for high status jobs, money and what-have-you is driven by a desire to be "accepted" by women as their partners.
So, whose game are we all playing and who is being played? ;)
Re: To all the men who want a "pure" virgin wife
I prefer mine to be an extra virgin....like Olive Oyl. :D
Yes two bad puns at one time. Sue me, this thread is so dated...
Re: To all the men who want a "pure" virgin wife
I prefer mine to be an extra virgin....like Olive Oyl. :D
Yes two bad puns at one time. Sue me, this thread is so dated...
well look who's back..:D
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Oh god this thread is still going on! I was taking a bunch of crazy pills when I creating this thing!
Re: To all the men who want a "pure" virgin wife
*Virginity is a large issue over a small tissue...
Why ?
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extremest, what did you google to get here?
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**But girls don't care!!! **honestly some might fine, but if girls started making those kinda demands from guys so many would never ever get married!
I mean if that was the case, how come we can marry 4 wives, its just different.
Its different, you can't equate men and women in exactly the same light when it comes to these things, you just can't, don't even pretend like you can, and I know you know exactly what I mean.
For a guy to bed many women is a source of pride, something he will boast about to his friends!!!
For girls Muslim or Non muslim to sleep around is a source of shame, even in America in high school the girl who sleeps around is laughed at and looked down upon!!!!!
While the guy who has many pretty girlfriends, all the girls want him, and his popularity will go up and up!! Sorry that's just how it works. Its like as a man, the more pretty girls you get, the more girls like you. It's not fair, but it is what it is.
Guys are gross beings, women are inherently beautiful, hence a man is not "dirtied" by touching a woman, but to get "pounded" by a guy, well i'm sorry no one wants their wife to have been banged by another dude. That dude will always laugh at you, always.
Course girls do care!! Do you expect your daughter to settle for a guy that's been around? No, you don't, you want what's best for her; a nice, "clean", pure man.
It only "seems" *like girls don't care because they end up marrying these guys... but what you fail to realise is that the majority of these women don't really have a choice and for their "families sake" they agree to the arranged marriage. If she had her way, she would have *preferred a clean man.
As for the 4 wives thing, that's a whole other issue/topic and not all related to the one the OP posted! (Stop trying to divert the thrtead, lol)
What MizSani is trying to say is that: If a man expects a clean wofe, then the girl has the same right to expect a clean man! Your post displays double standards, you imply it's okay for a man to reject a woman for not being a virgin, but a woman should not reject a man for the same reason...
Re: To all the men who want a "pure" virgin wife
sorry to say.. if the men are not virgins, then the women should not be held to it either..
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^stating the obvious now..
Re: To all the men who want a “pure” virgin wife
I remember reading this thread last year, it’s still here 
Re: To all the men who want a “pure” virgin wife
Garbage In = Garbage Out (GIGO). Take from that what you wish. :halo: