Re: Time to man up!!!
People should marry whoever they are compatible with. Period. It’s when people begin to get too specific or fixated on a certain type of person that they run into problems.
I find that manner in which you describe divorcees rather condescending. The simple fact that they had bad experiences in the past does not mean that they will be so eager to please that they will marry just anyone and be the perfect servile wife out of gratitude. As Icono stated, expecting this is the wrong way to start a relationship.