Time off/breaks in a relationship?

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Re: Time off/breaks in a relationship?

@Demesne

I think most girls would be all for talking it out, but men seem to like their space when riddled with issues of an emotional capacity which get too intense for whatever reason. It’s upto the female to understand that and give them that space. Now, that space might be different for each, beyond which it’s time to call / message yourself and initiate contact. I personally think three or four days is tops. Even so, if I was in a relationship which I wanted to mature, I would not allow it to enter a phase where it becomes “out of sight, out of mind”. I would message a goodmorning, or a goodnight each day just to let them know I am around and that though we are “on a break” , the core of the relationship is still sound. That said, those actions would be done without need for a response or expectation thereof.

After three-four days, a call is due.

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Re: Time off/breaks in a relationship?

@M_was_here

That’s something I struggle with. This topic isn’t about my relationship but it does happen where we have our bad days and end up not being in contact for a few days. But not expecting anything in return is definitely one thing a lot of people struggle with, and something I over-think at times too. Calling after 3-4 days sounds about right and pretty sensible.

(NEW TAWPIC TAIME)

I agree it is something which doesn’t come naturally. But rather is a learned behavior which one can benefit from.