i understand what you saying, but OP the asked if someone knows the recipe,and then DW could have said she can’t share her restaurant recipe i remember before restourant she used to cook too!and would have share any other recipe.
Woh tab ki baat thi. If someone has been nice/open enough to provide recipes in the past that they were not making a profit/kamai from, then we should have a “bara dil” during the couple or few times they can’t share especially if it’s business/livelihood matter. It’s human fitrat that if a person has been generous so many times in the past, but if 1-2 times they can’t give us what we want…then we make a mountain of that.
i didn’t say she should post her Secrate ingredient here what she use in restourant,also how it can be someone’s Rozi Roti’s masla if someone post a recipe here??
** Simple. For my sister’s wedding…we got a facial done from a very well-known makeup artist in our state. She shared that she likes to use a special cream from Southeast Asia, but she would not reveal the name. In the past I have gotten facials done by a woman who would cleverly keep her products in containers that did not show labels or names of what exactly she was using. I can totally understand why they would do this. If I can buy the products, then I don’t need to depend on their service…so they would lose business. This is why I shared with you examples of other products to make the point that this “air of secrecy” is not only seen with chefs but with other professionals as well who provide a service. **
ALSO I’m sure DW is not founder of Tika biryani,which she can’t tell anyone.
That DOES NOT matter. Let me give you a couple examples. Here is a hypothetical one: Let’s say my chacha opens up a restaurant and he is the main chef and he is the one who created the recipes. Even if I am not the owner of his restaurant, I am still a member of his family. And even if I work at the restaurant…and even if I DON’T work at his restaurant…if he does not want me to go around sharing the recipe with others, then I would have to respect his wishes. That’s the honorable/respectable/shareef thing to do. And if someone is going to say to me that "Tum to restaurant ki owner bhi nahi ho, tumharay uncle ka business hai…ya door k kisi chacha/mamu ka business hai…to bataa kyun nahi deti recipe…I would still think it’s wrong if I know that the owners would not wish it.
**2nd Example: I have seen many, many, many times on TV that even a worker at a famous restaurant or food factory will not share the recipe. He is ONLY a mamooli sa worker…he is NOT the maalik of the restaurant…but if his professional contract/agreement requires him to not share the recipe with anyone…then he won’t do it. It’s also part of professionalism, Kinzz. It is not necessary to be the owner of a business to maintain secrecy or confidentiality.
Allah SWT knows best whether or not Dubaiwali IS the owner/creator of her business…or whether it is owned/created by a close family member…or even an extended family member…or even door ka family member…or even her best friend. It doesn’t make a difference. IF her professional contract requires her to stay quiet about her recipe…or if she feels that it is not in her best professional interest to share the recipe…that is completely her right. **
one more thing OP could have googled the recipe too,but purpose of posting here is asking if someone has tried recipe.somi found it but rude if someone knows recipe and say they won’t share.
**I had a friend who wouldn’t tell me where she got her threading from…as though she was the malkin of the salon. Same friend lied about where she got her nose pierced…she wouldn’t tell me the exact location pf the store…as though she was the “owner” of the store. I think THIS type of behavior is “more” rude.
But I think that if someone is “known” or “famous” within their social circle for a recipe and they put their hard work in it…and they like “standing out” …then I understand if they don’t want to share it. My dad is “known” within our social circle for several of his dishes. If he doesn’t want to share the recipes, I don’t think that’s rude. I think it’s his right and people should respect that. And if they try to make him feel guilty about not sharing it…or if they criticize him for not sharing it behind his back…I think that is more rude.
And if someone EARNS money from their talents…then I understand and accept that this is even more of a reason for them to remain secretive. Or if someone works in a company that requires them to keep quiet, they have to honor that. Even if the restaurant was owned by Dubaiwali’s family members or friends…she still may not have the professional liberty to reveal details. **.