i know one dude who deliberately says this to** his wife so that she can change her ways. **he knows she hates it but he doesnt care.
So I guess wife did not care about what hubby felt about her "ways" ?
Honey, there are some things a man would rather die before saying, this is one of them. If the man is not complete a-hole wife need to find out what drove man to that point.
If situation persist its not gonna lead to any thing good. Trust me!!