Re: Threatened abortion, Help plz
Hey,
I am so sad to hear of what you're wife is going through.............may Allah SWT protect her and your unborn child.
I have had several miscarriages and I know how you must be feeling with the loss of blood. Please be assured though that a lot of women bleed during pregnancy....as I was told time and time again. I know it's no comfort to you when you are in this situation though..................
If they (the doctors) have said that it's a "threatened abortion", and have asked you to return in 2 weeks, my understanding is that there are lower chances of this actually happening, as if they thought it was imminent then they would monitor her (may be even admit her) as they need to ensure she is OK.
Please pray as much as you can, make dua, give sadaqah. Your wife should rest completely - the advice I was always given was to rest totally and only get up for visits to the toilet! Also, avoid intercourse....this was the first thing they told me.
I hope and pray that eveything is OK.
BTW - you don't mention how many weeks your wife is? Less than 24 weeks I assume?
Keep us posted