thokar...

was listening to an old cassette my dad gave me ages ago on my birthday… theres one chapter in it where the orator speaks about an incident…

hmmm dont know if you have ever experienced it, whenever one of your toes is injured, it is bound to happen that someone will step on your injured toe or else thokar lagegi chalte hue on that same toe and it hurts like a hell… if you are travelling in a bus, some one will crush your same toe …

actually, this process happens all the time… just that your toe is not injured, you dont feel anything… humara dhyaan hi nahi jaata us taraf

similarly it happens with your ego… when someone says something to you… you feel hurt… but its not actually you but your ego that gets hurt… of you dont have an ego, the same comment by someone might not hurt you as much as when you have an ego…

dont know how to check if one has an ego… i think ego is always there it just matters upon certain situations and the people you are dealing with…

Aww thats so sweet.Hmm well lets see how I can relate to what you're saying.I can take criticism from people who I like, yet-- when others (people Im not so crazy about) give me the same advice/comments etc,I get upset and angry.I have an ego with some, I dont with others.Do I sound like a nutcase or what!

:smiley:

jee woh to hai hi…

but agar ego na ho to koi kuch bhi kahein hurt nahi hoga… ab ego ko control kaise karein :smack:

Yeah I get hit on that injured toe quite often. I am too dang sensitive :smack: