was listening to an old cassette my dad gave me ages ago on my birthday… theres one chapter in it where the orator speaks about an incident…
hmmm dont know if you have ever experienced it, whenever one of your toes is injured, it is bound to happen that someone will step on your injured toe or else thokar lagegi chalte hue on that same toe and it hurts like a hell… if you are travelling in a bus, some one will crush your same toe …
actually, this process happens all the time… just that your toe is not injured, you dont feel anything… humara dhyaan hi nahi jaata us taraf
similarly it happens with your ego… when someone says something to you… you feel hurt… but its not actually you but your ego that gets hurt… of you dont have an ego, the same comment by someone might not hurt you as much as when you have an ego…
dont know how to check if one has an ego… i think ego is always there it just matters upon certain situations and the people you are dealing with…