The Soofi poet said, and this may apply to your situation, AND help you get where you want to be:
The verses were written by Baba Bhulle Shah a very famous “Siriakhi” Poet of Punjab
Someone translated them into English
parh parh aalim faazil hoyon tay naam rakhaya qazi
*by reading them books you became scholar *to be known as “Qazi” (Judge)
soh wari haj Makkay da keeta naam rakhaya haji
by going to Hajj of Makkah *100 times *to be known as “Hajji”
phharh talwaar dilawar ban-yon tay naaam rakhaya ghazi
*picking up sword you become a Soldier *to be known as “Ghazi” (Warrior)
ajay we Bhulleya kujh na khhatti-a jay yar na keeta razi
*You ain’t accomplished nothing Oh! **Bhulleya ***If your Beloved is not “Razi” (Happy)