lol.Thats so sweet of you.Oh not a “stinky smelly guy”.In fact if I started listing what type I want, the list will never end!
I dont know.I mean all the risthas Iv gotten so far, the guys were all from elsewhere.And those that were here, want to move.Arghh.No way Im moving.Absolutely not.I cant stay away from my family or friends for that long.And move to another country with my hubby, thats scary!
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In fact if I started listing what type I want, the list will never end!
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Obviously we all hope that what YOU are offering to the guy is also a never-ending list. Cz otherwise it will be kinda lop-sided, you know. :)
Well the postive side is never ending, and since I have no flaws, yes indeed it is a bit lop-sided.You have some suggestions?
No, I really don't have any suggestions to a perfect person. Just that ke Allah aap ko hidayat de aur sada khush rakhay. Ameen sum ameen.
Nows a good time as any to inform you I was joking ( about wanting perfection or being perfect).App nai zaroori har thread ki sateyaa naas karni hoti hai.:o
MQ, choose a guy who's gonna be near your house. It's really tough all this moving shoving..wouldn't recommend it.
The closest is Toronto.One wanted to drag me to Spain. I think I'll wait.I can only imagine how hard it must be!
I can move where ever you are 
you just have to say “yes” 
DD, love, u either need a slap or a hug..which one?
serioulsy chick, think about ur life for a minute and wiegh out the pros and cons of what you’v got going on right now. Try and think about all the positives things, i know that sounds lame, but you have to, try to think about the people who dont even have families, at least this way, being married, u have two families, your inlaws and your parents etc…
Obviously your going to miss home, you always will, no matter what you go through or how hard or happy life seems you will always think of England as home as thats where your family and friends are, but u also have an opportunity to make new friends, you have a new family now aswell. you can make a new home where you are now. Surly you have the best of both worlds?..or am i being naive?
Sorry if iv offended you chick, but i don’t know what else to say, and its kinda making me sad that you miss your family so much.
You gonna slap me out of this one lol :D
Yeah, i guess that's the only thing that keeps me going. Trying to see all this in a positive light. I see it as an experience that most people never have the chance to have. I mean how many people are born and die in the same place. They never go out and explore. So i think i am going to thank god for this experience later....and then of course when i'm going to bitz i think nothings worth living far from your parents and so forth.
I feel like shooting myself. I didn't realise the magnitude of the emotional effect before i got married. I always brushed it aside with yeah it's another European country i will adjust. I never even weighed up missing the family. Only i could be so stupid.
Khair, lemme not make you sad. I shall try and refrain from posting homesick comments every third second.
DD, you need to find things to occupy yourself. If you can, you should be out there trying to make friends. You are so friendly, I’ve met you in person and I know you have a natural knack for this. 
Can you start working yet? Are you able to volunteer at law firms to gain some more experience to what you already were doing before you got married? I think it would be easier for you to adjust if you actually had something productive to do. It’ll keep your mind off of missing your family.
Mehnaz, i have to get my visa sorted so i can learn the language and then go on to find employment. The visa bit alone will take a couple of weeks so i'm looking to start uni in January and work...don't know when i'll be working.
Everything seems so faraway. Ughh. But i'm trying..i must admit i do feel better than two weeks back. So i guess all i need is a load of time.
Im not saying don’t post them chick, u have the right to vent about anything and everything u want…i just don’t want you to feel sad as this feeling isnt going to last that long.
Il leave the slap for another day..anyway..ur older than me and i don’t slap elders…i only slap my kids..and maybes a few men!!