This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

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Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

@inspiron

X2 PHEW most reassuring post ever that I am not some meany.

• you have actually worked it out - just discovered he came the US a young teen but cannot tell at all in terms of accent etc… I also on closer analysis think hes just either socially awkward or nervous.

I am of course going to give him a chance and talk to him more…

I just need to get the sillyness out of my head!

He is a good guy with a good job and he is interested I am determined to be normal and make this work.

Look kiddo…learn to love your instincts, you have a good head on your shoulders. Had it been one of those lost mentally 16 year old chronic teeny boppers, i would have lectured them, but you are an independent minded, in with the flow type of person so if something seems off…investigate it.

communication, compassion, cooperation..all critical in a relationship. you dont have to be xerox copies, but have to be able to relate. I am less concerned by him not getting it…but more that he found it rude…like dude, if you dont get it, how can you find it rude if you have no idea what it means..unless ..well you know what I mean mate..noted in the previous post

just be careful.