He does not know how to communicate nicely to people and how to treat others with respect. He breaks under stress. He behaves nicely with his superiors but to his peers and people under him he is disrespectful.
How do you deal with such a guy ?
How long will he last ?
I have defeated him at his games many a times , but he does not learn his lessons. He always starts on wrong footing with me but when my boss comes into picture he calms down , toots the same tune I do and behaves. My boss is fully aware and agrees to me about behavior of this guy , but he is unable to do anything about it.
What can I do to make him behave from the beginning ?
Re: This guy is very rude.
become his superior....
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Remain to the point with him and avoid getting into any nasty situations/conversations.
Try to do a written communication with him as much as you can manage .. so that tomorrow you have proof of his actions.
If his boss is already aware of his attitude , then , when the opportunity is right , let him know that you would be CC'ing him in any sensitive communications with this guy , in order to avoid any future issues.
and if nothing is helping, then lodge a formal complaint with enough proof ... the HR should then ask your colleagues as well if they are facing similar issues with this guy and if they are , then action will be taken against him...
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I have some suggestions. None of them are sensible.
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Thanks CB for your sensible advice.
I have some suggestions. None of them are sensible.
I have a doctorate level qualification in those methods , but that is not what I am looking for.
Re: This guy is very rude.
you guys mean phainti treatment for him?
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ah the sycophant.. maintain a distance, pay no attention to him and if he comes across you treat him like the scum of the earth that he is. he associates respect with authority. don't be nice or respectful to him because in that way you'll give him the privilege to treat you the way he has been treated his entire life.
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Biryani, I was thinking more along the lines of clingfilm over the toilet.
Mirch, sounds like he is in over his head with the job, and can't cope with the stress of it and so takes it out on you guys.
Wishing you the best of luck in solving it.
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A mail to H.R will solve all your problems.
I remember we had one guy in our Organization who used to have his bad words almost at all his subordinates.One day we witnessed his gimmick at our pantry.Ther next thing we had to advise his subordinates was to send a mail to H.R .The whole problem got solved in a day's time.