hi, as i mentioned in my previous thread that my marriage is not working, my husband does not response me in any matter,discussions,money, family etc.Most of you suggested to get divorce and some said remove your mistakes and try again to make your relationship work,well I am still trying hard for that. I have compromised on every thing but he says everything is ok but don´t ask for money.
He loves money he don´t need anything I feel. now the situation is I can just stay with him by name.I have to do all the efforts for myself and for my 1 kid by myself,so what is the purpose of staying with him,
my parents are already predicting that this marriage is not going to work whether I spend 5 yrs,10 yrs, 15 yrs one day this is going to finish.
I am afraid of the consequences. how the divorce will affect my daughter and me.
feeling so sad to hear about ur after marriage story. But it happens sometimes. Some marriages take much time to settle down a routine life. My suggestion is to put the matter before ur family elders not just parents but also with ur nenial and dedial families and if they suggest a divorce option is best then ask them to place same before elders of ur hubby i think matter will at this stage will be resolved with out divorce.
How long have you been married? Has anyone talked to your husband?
it´s almost 2 n half years. I told to his father and he is going to talk him soon.
we fought few days back only because of kharcha, problem is I want him to take some responsibility, I support my family too and also affords expenditures of my daughter and myself but I want him to afford half of our expenditures excluding my own family.
feeling so sad to hear about ur after marriage story. But it happens sometimes. Some marriages take much time to settle down a routine life. My suggestion is to put the matter before ur family elders not just parents but also with ur nenial and dedial families and if they suggest a divorce option is best then ask them to place same before elders of ur hubby i think matter will at this stage will be resolved with out divorce.
got some hope after reading your comments, yes soon we are going to talk him but first we let his father to talk his son.
Dont talk to him singly try that all his elders in the meeting where all this is discussed. becuase some one or the other from his elders will definitely support for truth even if remaining all take his side due to relation ship.