Thinking about the future

welll u know… ur husband will get married eventually and your loved ones will move along with their lives as well…
now what will happen to you if he goes first? (no hard feelsings, u know death is inevitable )… i wonder how many ladies (specially with kids) talks to their husbands about their (her and kids) future in this prespective?

guys will you take an offence on such questions from your wives?