What are some things you wished you accomplished or made the most of before you had kids that you are not able to do now? Career, travelling, enjoying nights out?
I’m getting married next year and we’re planning on starting to try for kids right away (I may have some fertility issues, so we want to start trying early in case we have trouble getting pregnant right away).
I’m a huge travel buff, and I know I want to try and do as much travelling as I can before I have kids. Children are a blessing, of course, but what are other things that should be enjoyed before kids come into the mix?
Re: Things you wished you did before having kids?
We enjoyed watching movies in the theatre, it seems like a vacation now. I do wish we had travelled more but money and time was tight so I don't think that was possible. We slept a lot, stayed up late, enjoyed lots of dinner out (after kids it is so hard to have a meal outside together...)
The one thing I wish I had done more of was paid attention to my diet, gymming and also pampered myself a lot more. But other than that alhamdulillah enjoyed our time together a lot. After kids, you do miss that time but if we get a dinner and movie out it is like a mini vacation... :D
Re: Things you wished you did before having kids?
Oh my little one Loves going to the theater so that might not be a problem he mashallah doesnt make a fuss when we go out to eat either.. the only thing i wish i had done before he was born was go traveling and go to all my favorite theme parks and stuff.. places where u need to be active and care free. but other than that..every thing can be done with the baby:d so do what u can and then just have fun:D!!!