...Things You Still Feel Sorry For...

ohhh lots of things i wish i hadn't told the guy i liked i liked him, wish i never revealed any of my secrets and had always stayed reserved, i wish i had a accepted a marriage proposal from a person whose already moved on by now :(

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shikra - you were always notorious - even in bachpan :p

I regret each and every time I didn't listen and heed to my parents and went ahead to do my own thing being my rebellious self and eventually got into wayyyyyy deep trouble. And i regret that, no matter how hard I try, I could never tell my parents how much I love them and thank them for putting up with my silliness and for always forgiving me and never rubbing it in my face.

awee :hugz:

move on :slight_smile:

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^ Yep, especially if he has moved on.

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I feel sorry for everything i’ve ever done :vivo:

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  1. When I was 8 or 9 I was in my room with my little brother (who was probably 3-4 at the time), and grabbed him and started speaking in a scary voice. He actually got scared and I felt terrible.

  2. At 10 I made a big fuss that my gharara for my chacha's wedding looked like the other little girl cousins were wearing, rather than what my teen cousins we wearing. There was a lot of screaming and yelling that went on.

I'm sure there's more.

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^ #1 is actually funny :hehe:

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I got blamed for something by everyone in my family.....so yeah I feel sorry for myself sometimes.

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*everyone now and then being mean to my siblings…but I have such a guilty conscience I end up apologising…or I will be so down that I will try to rectify the situation…even if the other person is in the wrong:sigh:

*hitting this girl when i was in secondary school…she was a bully and a good foot taller than me…one day it got too much and I remember slapping her…:bummer:

*I have hurt my parents alot…I have tried to make amends but I don’t know if things will ever be the way they were…

*been mean to one of my cousins when I went to Pakistan in 1998…she’s now a good friend

one thing which gets me down s some extended family…will always been there to rub salt in the wounds by constantly reminding me of what I was like and all the bad things I have ever done…geeks!

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In 2002 I was in A.K. and there was an argument which led to me being scolded by my Mother. Basically my maternal cousin was at fault but as I was the guest in his house I got to take the flak. I was so angry after the whole episode that I needed to be alone so I went and locked myself in the bathroom. I'd been in there for a while when my Nani jaan walked all the way towards the bathroom door and kept asking me to come out. I will never forgive myself for being such an idiot and making her walk all the way towards the bathroom when she can't walk unaided any more and then being disrespectful towards her by ignoring her for a few mins.

I have so many regrets in my life that I can write a book. But looking at how people started dantofying Shikra I am going to keep chup.:)
The key point is as Shikra said we are all humans we make mistakes so it is not possible to have regrets free life. I have leaned the secret of minimizing regrets in life.
It is like this, when I am in bed at night I reflect on my entire day's activities and try to find the things I have done the wrong way or could have done differently.