Things to do for husbands

mAd_ScIeNtIsT · May 10, 2006, 10:39pm

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^^

Mmm… tasty

sadzzz · May 10, 2006, 10:46pm

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cook him his favorite dinner and dessert... wear something he likes.. it makes them feel special, me thinks..

FrozenFire · May 11, 2006, 12:16am

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lol.....um sex all day lolllllll!!!

lussi · May 11, 2006, 12:33am

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forget good food or a good bj..just dont do anything...if he's working, just let him work...or if he's watching some sports, just let him...give some space and he'll talk to u when he wants to..

sadzzz · May 11, 2006, 12:35am

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the above two replies are obviously from unmarried males :) hehe...

i think every guy likes a bit of pampering.. instead of interupting him during a sports game, i think its best to "pretend" ur a lil interested... no?

Sadiyah · May 11, 2006, 12:55am

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Isn't it a bit sad that many have put down intimacy as something to surprise or brighten up the day for the husband/significant other?

I'd find it surprising or a means of making the day for the husband if the wife happens to be abstinent.

Sara516 · May 11, 2006, 1:01am

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^ WHO the hell in their righ tmind would be abstinent while married ???

sadzzz · May 11, 2006, 1:06am

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who said intimacy was bad?

Sadiyah · May 11, 2006, 1:07am

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It's nothing bad, but why the crazy obsession?

sadzzz · May 11, 2006, 1:10am

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^ oh.. i read what u said wrong.. my bad

AnGeL_EyEs · May 11, 2006, 1:52am

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hehe...thought ud like that one better :D

WitchDr · May 11, 2006, 4:23am

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Some misconception in ladies:

Men like receiving flowers (they may appear to like it but they are indifferent)
Men like surprises visit (will appear like a spot check)
Way to man's heart is through his stomach (absolute BS)
Phone calls at work (Pleazze no., Don't make phone calls to discuss the latest gossip.. XXX)
Buying him something
On a general note, anything which ladies like to receive themselves, men don't like. They have different needs.
Notes left in the bag (Sadly no this does not work as well) Most men behave as they like the above gestures just to please their ladies.

What men like:

Ladies like to dress up. Men like that. However, Ladies dress up to impress other ladies and may be other men but not their husbands. He is already a catch. Make him feel that you are dressing up for him. Asking him, "How do I look" is a clear sign that you are not dressing up for him. Instead ask, " Do you like it".
Marriage is an intimate affair. Like any other thing in life, after marriage intimacy become just another plate on the table. Try to recreate intimacy, like take baths together :P. Be creative.
Try to show interest in his job, but not in the people politics at his job.
Someone said let him watch his sports channel. Try to take interest in what he is watching. Try to understand the game he is watching. Watch his favourite game with him.
Try not to comment on his mistake over and over and over and over and over...........
Be open about sexual matters. Tell him your needs.
Listen to him when he is talking like he listens to you.
Do leave him alone sometimes making sure you let him know that you are doing it for him.
Don't lie to him.

If I get time, I put some more.

Browneyedbeauty · May 11, 2006, 4:46am

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^ha! i already knew these…but i still don’t get it y men dont like flowers

Daagh · May 11, 2006, 4:57am

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can we have a summerised post...

i will email the link to this thread to fatee :p

symbol · May 11, 2006, 5:07am

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summary: buy husband a plasma tv and a xbox 360

skhan · May 11, 2006, 5:39am

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As opposed to strictly procreation?

Then they wonder why men cheat…

Witch Dr pretty much covered everything. :k:

Rush · May 11, 2006, 9:01am

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^ agree

lollypop_man · May 11, 2006, 10:53am

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good list witch. i cant beleive someone said men like hugs. thats just wrong especially in summer.

parissenoor · May 11, 2006, 11:04am

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WitchDr:

What men like:

Ladies like to dress up. Men like that. However, Ladies dress up to impress other ladies and may be other men but not their husbands. He is already a catch. Make him feel that you are dressing up for him. Asking him, “How do I look” is a clear sign that you are not dressing up for him. Instead ask, " Do you like it".

Marriage is an intimate affair. Like any other thing in life, after marriage intimacy become just another plate on the table. Try to recreate intimacy, like take baths together :P. Be creative.

Try to show interest in his job, but not in the people politics at his job.

Someone said let him watch his sports channel. Try to take interest in what he is watching. Try to understand the game he is watching. Watch his favourite game with him.

Try not to comment on his mistake over and over and over and over and over…

Be open about sexual matters. Tell him your needs.

Listen to him when he is talking like he listens to you.

Do leave him alone sometimes making sure you let him know that you are doing it for him.

Don’t lie to him.

If I get time, I put some more.

but it’s normal relationship to a guy…this thread was about doing something SPECIAL for one’s hubby…so what’s special that men like???

ashtray · May 11, 2006, 11:05am

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Nicely put WitchDr, but do you seriously think these self centered creatures, called women, will ever understand our needs. Their idea of doing things for us is what they want not what we want.