Re: Things that Husband SHOULD NOT EXPECT
Yes - it comes under husband’s responsibilities - same as taking care of your wife’s parent comes under her or her siblings’ obligations .
One should either spend his own time in looking after his parents or if he can afford get them professional help .
And if your wife helps you there - you should be obliged !
Well if you can afford - then you should live in a separate house - I dont think any woman mind you and your kids visiting your parents on weekly or even daily basis , if they live around !
And it really needs two to tango - so if your family /parents/siblings are educated and sensible enough to avoid pety issues , i dont see a reason why she cant live with them .
Strangely i have met few women in me life , who actually prefer to live under joint family system as it some how helps them running their own careers simultaneously ! My own sisters are examples I can happily quote here !
It is indeed a favor - enough said !
There is always room for discussion , again I cant comprehend why they both cannot reach to a decision with mutual agreement .
Being stubborn is a different ball game , you can’t help any one there but one should respect the individuality of other person .
why mold some one with force - if they really care about you , they will start wearing colors and styles you like , to unintentionally make you happy - and believe me, people do really that !
if you cant make them do that .. Then the problems is with you matey bhoy , not with them !