the mere fact that you havestarted this thread is a proof enough that you have not become ‘desensitized’ to an alarming extent, or maybe you have but not completely:)…thats quite encouraging i guess…and if there’s a little bit of it left you can nourish and make it grow…/the prob is how?..others facing this kinda prob usually engage themselves in activities like sports, or community/volunteering services or anything in which team work is involved…this way u build up that care for others slowly, bit by bit…and this care/attachment may in turn make u more sensitive towards others in general…the only tough part here i guess is being confident and making yrself believe that u can do it…start it with a positive approach and keep your goal in yr mind(in this case yr goal being ‘sensitivity’…and challenge yrself…i like doing that and find that it works, coz i dont like to lose, or be defeated when challenged…so the act of challlenging myself really helps…the attitude that ‘what’s teh big deal in it that i cant do it?’…well i hope this proves to be beneficial for u too as it has for others…
and am glad that u do realise that hate is a very strong word/emotion, that u’d ratheer not use…and for the fake smile part…well i do that too:D…and am damn good at it,…no one even realises that it’s fake:D…sometime’s people do it coz they dont wanna burden other’s with their probs…
I guess you are right, however I have become desensitised. What I have written about are my observations. When I say desensitised it is not towards everyone, it is just towards this one particular person.
Being confident is a tough job for me right now and also is positive outlook.
Hate definitely is a very strong emotion and I do realise that, this is why I wrote that. I wish everyone would be like you. Not letting their emotions show on their face.