Re: THEY HATE ME!!!!!!!
Lalita - Be yourself!
I know your husband to be will not change himself to get along with your parents fine then why should girl change.
i personally would not change me compeletely just to be with someone Ofcourse on occasions you have to compromise but to a limit.
Lalita this is how i look at it- Parents should have enough trust in their kids that they raised them well and they can make a good judgement. You are lucky mashallah guy stood up for you in front of his parents and respected them at the same time.
Kids are usually some sort of a reflection of parents. If he fell in love with you and now marrying you i am sure your in laws will appreciate you as time will go by.
I honestly dont know much about mirpuris etc but i know they are Pakis. You will have to be born again to please them. So just leave it..... be yourself.
and Congratulations i love shadis, tons of nice clothes and jewelry..Oh dont forget to post your lehnga pics on gupshup i will look forward to those and mehndi designs.