Re: THEY HATE ME!!!!!!!
those of you who think living close to parents or wanting to be close to them is wrong and that they only deserve ur care and love only if they have a medical condition are pathetic!
Mamaof3, even if the love of my life asks me whos more important to me, her or my family, my answer would be my family. I am disappointed that you would ask her to make him choose one or weigh in and see who he likes/holds more important. As tranditional people, give them a break, yes its tough for them to accept a gori wife and sorry but yes they live in the 18th century but thats the way they are. They cant be as open minded or 'modern' as your 21st century folks.
Lalita, goodluck and its basically upto u and ur hubby... if you both want to make it work, it will work, yes it,ll be hardwork, but very doable. I'm sure with time the inlaws would be more open to you. If they are traditional, you should know what you are getting urself into and understand that there might be awkward moments, and that there would be compromises. The key is ur hubby. Its a mans job to know the place of his wife and his family and how to handle it all. If he has a strong personality, you dont need to worry about anything. He'll handle it all and wont let you be mistreated in anyway.